responsibilities means answerable or accountable, as for something within one's power, control or management.
so now my question to you. what are your responsibilities? to put it in a nicer way, it is call help. one shall not speak of the ugly way. it will only turn more sour. ordering one around doesnt sounds any fun at all. one is obliged to adhere to instructions or not. remember, doing this out of good will and taking something back in return via the same thing is a totally different story. get your responsibilities right, because for the time being, one doesnt think you deserve much respect from oneself. although asking nicely is just another act, however, the motive behind is just to lighten workload. give one what oneself deserve and maybe one will consider.
on another note, if you think one is wrong, come talk to one straight up. one believe there is always room for talking. it is depending how civilized and mature a person is to settle certain matters.